Control What You Can: A Better Definition of Resilience for Men Under Pressure

Resilience as Separating Action From Outcome: How men under pressure can focus on what they control, prepare properly and accept uncertainty.

Men are frequently taught that resilience means handling whatever life throws at them: stay strong, solve the problem and keep moving.

But what happens when the outcome isn't entirely yours to control?

Saul has a simple philosophy that emerges naturally from the way he approaches his career: there are things he can control and things he can't. His energy goes into the former.

That creates a conversation that extends far beyond business. Resilience doesn't have to mean pretending uncertainty doesn't affect you. It can mean separating action from outcome: preparing properly, doing the work, accepting uncertainty and refusing to waste energy trying to control every variable.

For men who feel responsible for producing answers - in business, finances, family or life - that distinction can be powerful. This conversation gives Saul the opportunity to explore how he approaches uncertainty, pressure and situations where doing everything right still doesn't guarantee the outcome.

About Saul Cohen

Saul Cohen, podcast guest

Empowering Entrepreneurs with Strategic Financial Advice

1 Business sold before starting his PwC careerPwC Assurance & Risk Management experience£1M+ Annual earnings of business owners he advisesPartner The Expert Eye

Saul Cohen is an experienced accountant, acquisitions advisor, and passionate advocate for entrepreneurship. With a distinguished career that spans top-tier firms such as PwC and leadership roles at The Expert Eye, Saul has honed his expertise in financial audits, risk analysis, and strategic acquisitions. He is committed to empowering entrepreneurs to transition from business operators to savvy investors, unlocking their full potential.

Drawing inspiration from personal experiences, including his father’s entrepreneurial journey, Saul has dedicated his career to helping small businesses and startups navigate the complexities of tax planning, acquisitions, and exit strategies. His holistic approach not only enhances business valuations but also enables entrepreneurs to reclaim their time and achieve financial freedom.

Saul’s work is characterized by a creative and practical approach to accounting, blending technical expertise with actionable strategies. His unique perspective resonates with successful business owners earning £1M+ annually, particularly those eager to optimize their wealth, prepare for business exits, or make impactful acquisitions.

As a podcast guest, Saul brings inspiring stories, actionable advice, and a passion for empowering entrepreneurs to achieve lasting success and drive positive change in their communities.

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