Listening Through Chaos: Building Trust and Resolving Conflict Impacted By Our Subconscious Patterns with Thais Gibson
Thais Gibson · February 27, 2024
Interview with Thais Gibson
Podcast: listening SUPERPOWER podcast
February 27, 2024 · 42 min
Conflicts can cause major stress on your relationships and your wellbeing. And often it's hard to put your finger on what just happened or why the same thing keeps happening. What if in that moment of chaos, when you feel overwhelmed or frustrated, listening could be your…
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About Thais Gibson
Bestselling Author, Leader in Personal Development, Relationship Expert, and Keynote Speaker
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Thais Gibson is a dynamic bestselling author, keynote speaker, and leader in the personal development field. Her groundbreaking research on the subconscious mind and personal transformation has been recognized by major media outlets such as Time Business News, The New York Post, and Yahoo! News. Thais' eloquent public speaking has also left a positive mark on audiences globally; Thais was glad to be a chosen keynote speaker for Google on International Women's Day 2022, and has also appeared on numerous podcasts.
Thais is the founder of Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory, a dynamic theory that empowers individuals to heal different attachments in their lives and reprogram any limiting thoughts and behaviors. Her teachings have been distilled into the in-depth courses inside of The Personal Development School, which offers access to 60+ courses that feature step-by-step instructions for changing negative patterns. These courses have had over 1 million downloads across 113 countries, helping people create tangible change in their lives in areas such as personal development, growth, and relationships.
Thais has 13 different certifications across different psychological disciplines and has drawn from this knowledge to create her integrated attachment theory. Her book, Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in Your Life, combines traditional teachings with knowledge of subconscious patterns to provide powerful tools for powerful change.
About this episode
Conflicts can cause major stress on your relationships and your wellbeing. And often it's hard to put your finger on what just happened or why the same thing keeps happening.
What if in that moment of chaos, when you feel overwhelmed or frustrated, listening could be your answer to breaking unhealthy communication patterns. In this episode of your listening SUPERPOWER podcast, we do a deep dive into how listening to our subconscious patterns and limiting beliefs can impact how we communicate at work and at home.
My guestThais Gibson, the creator of the Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, gives us insight on how our subconscious patterns impact how we make meaning about ourselves and how this impacts how we communicate.
Her innovative framework unites traditional attachment theory, developmental psychology insights, and the potent subconscious reprogramming techniques. She shares stories about how subconscious patterns can be managed for healthier relationships, and she gives us practical tips on expressing our needs, setting boundaries and on fostering connection.
Thais has nearly a decade of experience running a successful private practice. She also has a diverse experience in modalities such as CBT, NLP, somatic experiencing internal family systems and shadow work. And this has influenced the Personal Development School, which is her educational platform that integrates an innovative coaching training program, which is based on the integrated attachment theory framework.
Enjoy this episode of your listening SUPERPOWER podcast where Thais shares frameworks that can help you notice how listening is impacted by your subconscious patterns and what can do about it, also in the business world.
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listening SUPERPOWER notes:
03:18 - The power of listening in childhood and its impact on adulthood
04:38 - Coping with chaos through Listening
07:39 - Impact of childhood experiences. importance of being present and listening in relationships
09:13 - Healing through listening. The impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships
12:41 - Resolving conflict through understanding, strategies for validating feelings and resolving conflicts
15:11 - Uncovering underlying wounds. The stages of relationships and navigating through them, both at home and at work.
16:13 - Childhood roots of adult patterns
20:08 - Impact of past experiences on present reactions
21:40 - Overcoming fear of giving feedback
24:56 - Shifting subconscious behaviors
25:28 - Reflections on business growth. Applying techniques to help team members with core wounds in the workplace
29:15 - Building trust and relationships
40:29 - Empowering others through positive reinforcement, Thais recommended resources for personal development and daily content on YouTube
Key Takeaways:
"...the power of listening is something that not only calms people but helps…become a mirror into people as well." - Thais Gibson
"(In conflict)...often we talk about superficial things. But if we get more present and we investigate a little bit further, it's really these underlying wounds that we're feeling." - Thais Gibson
"Hard things are there to actually level us up to the next stage of who we're about to become." - Thais Gibson
Connect with Thais Gibson
Website: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
Book: Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment Theory https://www.amazon.com/Learning-Love-Relationship-Integrated-Attachment/dp/B0CFGFV5CH?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_id=learning-love
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thais-gibson-4543ba190/
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