Interview with Roy Biancalana
Podcast: Finding Love Podcast
May 22, 2025
Are you dating the same type of person over and over, with the same disappointing results? It’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern. And you can learn to break it. I had a chance to sit down with relationship coach, author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast, Roy…
About Roy Biancalana
Nationally Recognized Relationship Coach Helping Singles Break Patterns and Attract Lasting Love
Nearly 25 years Personal growth & coaching3× #1 bestseller Relationship & personal growth author280+ episodes Attracting Lasting Love podcastFormer player PGA Tour
Roy Biancalana is a nationally recognized relationship coach, bestselling author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast. With over 15 years of experience, Roy helps singles identify and overcome the internal barriers that keep them from finding fulfilling, lasting relationships. His journey into coaching began from personal hardship – navigating heartbreak, divorce, and unsuccessful rebounds – ultimately leading him to seek out coaching for himself. This transformative experience ignited his passion to guide others through their own relationship challenges.
As the author of Relationship Bootcamp: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Roy emphasizes the importance of being in “relationship shape.” He believes that healthy, sustainable relationships are not found through luck but through inner work and personal growth. His approach blends modern coaching techniques with the wisdom of spiritual thought leaders, creating a unique method that resonates with individuals seeking more conscious, meaningful connections.
Roy’s coaching primarily attracts individuals between 30 and 65, frustrated by their relationship history and ready to break patterns of self-sabotage. While he works with both men and women, Roy’s podcast appearances frequently touch on themes of personal growth, conscious living, and overcoming limiting beliefs.
About this episode
Are you dating the same type of person over and over, with the same disappointing results? It’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern. And you can learn to break it.
I had a chance to sit down with relationship coach, author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast,Roy Biancalana. We explored one of the biggest traps in dating and love: repeating the same emotional patterns without even realizing it.
Roy calls it “Relationship Groundhog Day”, where you attract the same kind of partner, fall into all-too-familiar drama and dysfunction, and then wonder why things never seem to change.
But here's the truth: it's not about luck, or the apps, or where you live. It's about your inner shape, and what you’re unconsciously attracting.
Here’s what we unpack in this episode:
How your childhood plays a big role in your adult dating life.Why the Law of Attraction is always working, whether you want it to or not!The unconscious reasons you might be drawn to “projects” or emotionally unavailable partners.What it actually looks like to do the work (hint: it’s not just journaling).How to finally break free of the old patterns and experience the love you truly want.
Roy doesn’t sugarcoat anything, but he does offer hope, clarity, and a path forward. If you’re ready to stop blaming your luck and start shifting your shape, this is the episode to listen to.
Are you a man over 40 ready to stop repeating the same dating patterns?
If Roy’s words hit home, and you’re tired of ghosting, guesswork, and going it alone, it’s time to take a smarter approach.
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