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Relationship Bootcamp: How to Train for the Love You Want with Roy Biancalana

Roy Biancalana · March 28, 2025

Relationships · Life Coach · Author

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Relationship Bootcamp: How to Train for the Love You Want with Roy Biancalana

Podcast: Love, Laughs, and Lessons

March 28, 2025 · 48 min

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Key topicsThe Real Reason You’re Still Single (Hint: It’s Not What You Think)Many singles believe their relationship struggles stem from bad luck or not meeting the right person. Roy dismantles this myth, exposing the deeper, hidden reasons that keep people stuck in frustrating dating patterns. Through candid stories and practical insights, Roy highlights how unresolved past experiences, self-sabotage, and limiting beliefs quietly dictate romantic outcomes. This conversation empowers listeners to uncover the real barriers to love and break free from them. Breaking the Relationship Groundhog Day Syndrome – Why You Keep Dating the Same Person in Different BodiesRoy introduces the concept of 'Relationship Groundhog Day,' where individuals unknowingly repeat the same toxic patterns, even when dating new people. He reveals how subconscious habits drive partner selection and how emotional wounds create predictable – and preventable – relationship cycles. In this dynamic episode, Roy shares how to break the cycle by identifying blind spots, rewriting inner narratives, and stepping into healthier dating experiences. The Most Important Relationship in Your Life (And Why It Has Nothing to Do with Dating)In this transformative discussion, Roy shifts the focus from external dating strategies to the relationship that underpins all others – the one with yourself. He explains how cultivating self-love, self-trust, and emotional resilience lays the foundation for attracting healthier romantic connections. By fostering this internal relationship, singles not only improve their love lives but also experience greater fulfillment across all areas of life. View all topics →

About Roy Biancalana

Roy Biancalana, podcast guest

Nationally Recognized Relationship Coach Helping Singles Break Patterns and Attract Lasting Love

Nearly 25 years Personal growth & coaching3× #1 bestseller Relationship & personal growth author280+ episodes Attracting Lasting Love podcastFormer player PGA Tour

Roy Biancalana is a nationally recognized relationship coach, bestselling author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast. With over 15 years of experience, Roy helps singles identify and overcome the internal barriers that keep them from finding fulfilling, lasting relationships. His journey into coaching began from personal hardship – navigating heartbreak, divorce, and unsuccessful rebounds – ultimately leading him to seek out coaching for himself. This transformative experience ignited his passion to guide others through their own relationship challenges.

As the author of Relationship Bootcamp: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Roy emphasizes the importance of being in “relationship shape.” He believes that healthy, sustainable relationships are not found through luck but through inner work and personal growth. His approach blends modern coaching techniques with the wisdom of spiritual thought leaders, creating a unique method that resonates with individuals seeking more conscious, meaningful connections.

Roy’s coaching primarily attracts individuals between 30 and 65, frustrated by their relationship history and ready to break patterns of self-sabotage. While he works with both men and women, Roy’s podcast appearances frequently touch on themes of personal growth, conscious living, and overcoming limiting beliefs.

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About this episode

Episode Description:

Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai delve into the profound intersection of sex and trauma. They're joined by Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, who shares her extensive experience and insights on handling emotional trauma and its impact on our sex lives. Dr. Maidenberg, a therapist and author, discusses how our past traumas, whether minor or significant, shape our intimate relationships and self-perception. This episode is not just about the challenges but also about empowering listeners to navigate their feelings and find fulfillment, emphasizing mindfulness, values, and healing. It's a must-listen for anyone looking to overcome personal barriers and enhance intimacy in their life.

Guest Bio:

Michelle P. Maidenberg, Ph.D., MPH, LCSW-R, leads a multifaceted career in the field of mental health and wellness. Operating a private practice in Harrison, NY, she expertly combines therapeutic techniques with mindfulness to enhance her clients' well-being. As the co-founder and clinical director of "Thru My Eyes," Dr. Maidenberg directs a nonprofit organization that provides free, clinically-guided videotaping for individuals with chronic illnesses, enabling them to leave lasting legacies for their loved ones.

In addition to her clinical work, Dr. Maidenberg is an adjunct faculty member at New York University, where she teaches a graduate course on mindfulness practices. She also actively contributes to the mental health community as a member of the American Red Cross Crisis Team and serves on the Board of Directors for the Westchester Trauma Network in Westchester, NY.

A prolific author, Dr. Maidenberg has written several award-winning books, including "Free Your Child From Overeating: 53 Mind-Body Strategies For Lifelong Health" and "Ace Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want," available at major retailers. Her dedication to spreading knowledge extends to her engaging TED Talk titled "Circumventing Emotional Avoidance" and her regular contributions as a blogger for Psychology Today. Every Thursday, she shares new guided meditations on her YouTube channel, further underscoring her commitment to promoting mental health and self-empowerment.

Awards for 'Ace Your Life':

Book Excellence Award Winner for Psychology

The Eric Hoffer Gold Award for Excellence in Independent Publishing

Silver Award Winner at the Nonfiction Author’s Association – Nonfiction Book Awards

Colorado Independent Publishers Association (CIPA EVVY) Silver Award Winner in Self-Help

Links: Michelle Maidenberg |Dr. Michelle Maidenberg | Facebook Log in to X / X Michelle Maidenberg, Ph.D., MPH, LCSW-R, CGP - Thru My Eyes Foundation | LinkedIn Dr. Michelle Maidenberg - YouTube

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