Geoff Owen
Founder of Biologically Aligned Parenting, Reframing Oppositional Behaviour Through Parent-Child Environment
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Golfers know you cannot fix the shot until you read the conditions, and Geoff says parenting works the same way
Geoff has played golf for most of his life, still competes at 70, and recently shot 77 in a club competition, so his parenting lens does not borrow from golf loosely - it comes from someone who understands the game from the inside. He sees a direct parallel between good golf and good parenting: the mistake is usually not solved by forcing harder, but by reading the lie, the pressure, the weather, the course, and the conditions shaping what happens next. For golfing parents, especially those who know the pressure of performance or travel, this reframes a child’s behaviour in a way that feels immediately familiar. Geoff shows why behaviour, like a golf shot, is not something to simply correct in isolation; it is a response to the conditions around it, and when parents learn to read those conditions, they stop wasting energy fighting the wrong problem.
The disconnected child who retreats to their room is not rejecting the parent, but objecting to the environment
When children withdraw, shut down, become monosyllabic, or disappear into screens, parents often experience it as disrespect or rejection. Geoff reframes that behaviour as a form of instinctive self-protection, especially when the child does not have the language or maturity to explain what feels wrong. His work shows how small shifts in parental pressure, presence, and attention can change the emotional climate without forcing a confrontation. For parents of tweens, teens, and young adults at home, this creates a hopeful conversation about rebuilding connection without chasing, pleading, or controlling.
Children do not need to be raised into maturity as much as reared in the conditions that allow it
Geoff makes a sharp distinction between raising and rearing, because one suggests shaping a child from the outside while the other points to the conditions that allow a child to grow. His perspective is rooted in the belief that children are born social, capable, and responsive to the atmosphere around them. Rather than asking parents to mould behaviour through constant correction, he helps them see maturity as something that develops when children feel trusted, included, connected, and safe enough to settle. This is a powerful conversation for parents who sense that conventional parenting language no longer fits the kind of relationship they want with their child.
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Latest episodes
Key topics
Golfers know you cannot fix the shot until you read the conditions, and Geoff says parenting works the same way
Geoff has played golf for most of his life, still competes at 70, and recently shot 77 in a club competition, so his parenting lens does not borrow from golf loosely - it comes from someone who understands the game from the inside. He sees a direct parallel between good golf and good parenting: the mistake is usually not solved by forcing harder, but by reading the lie, the pressure, the weather, the course, and the conditions shaping what happens next. For golfing parents, especially those who know the pressure of performance or travel, this reframes a child’s behaviour in a way that feels immediately familiar. Geoff shows why behaviour, like a golf shot, is not something to simply correct in isolation; it is a response to the conditions around it, and when parents learn to read those conditions, they stop wasting energy fighting the wrong problem.
The disconnected child who retreats to their room is not rejecting the parent, but objecting to the environment
When children withdraw, shut down, become monosyllabic, or disappear into screens, parents often experience it as disrespect or rejection. Geoff reframes that behaviour as a form of instinctive self-protection, especially when the child does not have the language or maturity to explain what feels wrong. His work shows how small shifts in parental pressure, presence, and attention can change the emotional climate without forcing a confrontation. For parents of tweens, teens, and young adults at home, this creates a hopeful conversation about rebuilding connection without chasing, pleading, or controlling.
Children do not need to be raised into maturity as much as reared in the conditions that allow it
Geoff makes a sharp distinction between raising and rearing, because one suggests shaping a child from the outside while the other points to the conditions that allow a child to grow. His perspective is rooted in the belief that children are born social, capable, and responsive to the atmosphere around them. Rather than asking parents to mould behaviour through constant correction, he helps them see maturity as something that develops when children feel trusted, included, connected, and safe enough to settle. This is a powerful conversation for parents who sense that conventional parenting language no longer fits the kind of relationship they want with their child.
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