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Andre Lazarus

Andre Lazarus

Intimacy Coach and Virgin Island TV Expert Helping People Reconnect with Desire

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Owning Your Sexual Self

Owning Your Sexual Self

Interview with Andre Lazarus

January 20, 2026

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About this episode

Hello! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I'm so excited to finally welcome Andre Lazarus to the show. Andre is a somatic intimacy guide and a widely recognized voice in conversations around relationships, sexuality, and embodied connection, and his work brings such a grounded, compassionate perspective to intimacy. You may also recognize him from the UK series Virgin Island, where he helped reframe intimacy as something rooted in consent, curiosity, and connection. I have been looking forward to this conversation for a long time, and I am genuinely thrilled to finally welcome Andre onto the show.

In this episode:

What somatic intimacy work is and how it differs from talk based approachesHow safety, consent, and curiosity create the foundation for meaningful intimacyWhat surrogate partner work is and how it supports therapeutic goalsWhat it can look like to rebuild safety within your own bodySimple embodied practices that help people feel more present and groundedHow curiosity can soften shame and open new pathways to connectionThe role of intentional communication and regular relationship check insWhy connection compassion and presence are essential parts of intimacyThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!

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Andre Lazarus Podcast Episodes

Sex Is Medicine REBOOT

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Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50

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Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50

Jan 2026

Better Sex

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Better Sex

Dec 2025

Situaseans Podcast

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Situaseans Podcast

Nov 2025

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Key topics

Beyond Monogamy

Andre explores how couples can have honest conversations about boundaries, desire, and unmet needs—whether they choose monogamy, non-monogamy, or something in between. He also addresses the stigma surrounding infidelity, highlighting how shame often prevents people from understanding the deeper issues that lead to disconnection in relationships.

Why Men in Midlife Need Honest Conversations About Sex

Midlife brings changes that many men don’t expect—erectile difficulties, rapid ejaculation, or fading desire. These challenges are more common than most realize, yet silence and stigma keep men isolated. Andre Lazarus cuts through the shame by showing how intimacy struggles are not failures but signals for deeper connection. With years of somatic intimacy coaching and a men’s course dedicated to sexual communication, he equips men with practical strategies that blend body-based tools, open dialogue, and self-awareness. Instead of chasing performance, Andre helps men reclaim confidence and closeness—proving that intimacy can deepen and expand in midlife rather than diminish.

Let’s Talk About Rapid Ejaculation

Rapid ejaculation is one of the most common sexual concerns among men, yet it’s often hidden behind embarrassment. Andre opens up the conversation, explaining why it happens and how simple communication and body-based strategies can help men slow down, stay present, and feel more confident with partners.

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