Owning Your Sexual Self

Releasing Expectations and Rediscovering Pleasure with Devin Scott

Devin Scott · December 1, 2025

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Interview with Devin Scott

Releasing Expectations and Rediscovering Pleasure with Devin Scott

Podcast: Owning Your Sexual Self

December 1, 2025 · 30 min

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Key topicsWhy Competing Expectations Exhaust LGBTQ AdultsLGBTQ adults are often caught in a no-win bind: prove themselves through conventional success while also conforming to countercultural norms in queer spaces. The result is what Devin calls queer perfectionism-an endless performance of belonging that drains energy and erodes self-trust. Having worked at the intersection of trauma-informed coaching, bodywork, and mindfulness, Devin has seen how these pressures leave clients disconnected from their own truth. His work helps them stop chasing acceptance and start listening inward, shifting from exhaustion to self-acceptance. In conversation, he reveals why authenticity-not achievement or performance-is the real path to resilience and joy. Why Symptom Management Masquerades as Care-and What to Build InsteadWhen anxiety, burnout, and chronic pain keep rising despite record spending, the system isn’t “overwhelmed,” it’s misdesigned. Protocols chase symptoms because they’re billable and tidy; people need integration-mind, body, history, and context in one plan. Devin Scott left clinical psychotherapy after seeing how little room it made for somatics, spirituality, or the simple fact that healing is relational and lived in the body. He lays out a practical alternative: care that starts with nervous-system regulation before narrative, measures progress in function not form fill, and treats community, movement, breath, and meaning as core interventions rather than “adjuncts.” With training across social work, nutrition, somatic practice, and Buddhist and yogic philosophy, plus his work co-translating _Leela_ into a modern map for change, Devin shows audiences how to redesign support so it stops just quieting symptoms and starts restoring wholeness-without requiring anyone to adopt a belief system. Why Meaning Is Made, Not Found, When Life Feels BrokenWhen life feels hollow-after loss, burnout, or the quiet ache of going through the motions-the risk isn’t just misery, it’s drifting without a compass. Devin Scott argues that purpose isn’t waiting out there like a prize; it’s created in how we meet suffering, in the choices we make with our bodies, minds, and communities. He challenges the quick-fix myth: resilience isn’t numbing pain, it’s learning to read it as information. Drawing on psychotherapy training (LMSW), board-certified health coaching, and decades with Buddhist and yogic practice, he shows audiences practical ways to translate big questions into embodied action-breath before belief, rituals that stick, and micro-moves that restore direction. Devin’s current work co-translating _Leela_, an ancient Indian “map” of human experience, gives him rare language for modern malaise: the game isn’t to escape life’s squares, but to play them skillfully. That’s meaning-making you can actually use. View all topics →

About Devin Scott

Devin Scott, podcast guest

Board-Certified Wellness Coach, Licensed Social Worker, and Somatic Practitioner Specializing in Trauma and Identity

NBC-HWC National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach4 degrees Mathematics, economics, law & social workRYT-200 Yoga Alliance Registered Yoga TeacherLMSW Licensed social worker

Devin Scott, NBC-HWC, LMSW, helps people reconnect with their inner wisdom and move through life with greater authenticity. As the founder of Find Your Meaning, he blends body-based coaching, mindfulness, and psychological insight to support clients who feel disillusioned by traditional systems of healing. His work often draws people who have carried the weight of trauma or grown tired of “playing the game” of societal expectations, and who are now searching for something deeper, more sustainable, and more whole.

With training in social work, nutrition, somatic practices, and energy healing, Devin’s approach reflects both rigor and breadth. He combines elements of psychotherapy, bodywork, and fitness with the grounding philosophies of Buddhism and yoga—without requiring clients to adopt a fixed belief system. His sessions emphasize integration: mind and body, science and spirituality, personal history and present possibility.

A particular passion is his study of Leela, a thousand-year-old Indian board game that encodes spiritual teachings about human life. Devin is co-authoring a modern translation of its Sanskrit guide, bridging ancient wisdom with modern psychology and anatomy so Western audiences can explore life’s challenges as opportunities for growth. This work mirrors his philosophy with clients: emotions and struggles are not pathologies to erase but messages with purpose, pointing toward new directions of meaning.

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About this episode

Hello! Welcome back for another episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I am so excited for you to hear fromDevin Scotttoday! Devin is a therapist and coach who helps people reconnect with their own inner wisdom and move through life in a way that feels real and authentic. He blends body based coaching, mindfulness, and psychological insight in a way that feels supportive without being overwhelming, and he works with so many people who are tired of playing "the game" and ready for something deeper. His perspective is thoughtful, fresh, and so needed. You're going to love him!

In this episode:

What Leela is and how it uses emotional states to reflect the ups and downs of lifeHow cultural messages and expectations can create conflicting pressuresWhy so many people end up performing instead of living as themselvesHow shame and identity struggles show up in the nervous systemWhy everyday pleasure matters and how it helps people move through heavy emotionsWhy pleasure can feel uncomfortable or selfish during painful or uncertain timesHow to get back to your own meaning, agency, and self trustConnect with Devin

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