Self Directed

Victoria Lenormand | From Detective To Unschooling Advocate

Victoria Lenormand · December 22, 2025

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Interview with Victoria Lenormand

Victoria Lenormand | From Detective To Unschooling Advocate

Podcast: Self Directed

December 22, 2025 · 53 min

Ex-detective turned homeschooler Victoria Lenormand describes leaving a policing career as it shifted from service to force and recognizing the same pattern in her son’s early schooling. In this conversation, she explains how grading, labels, and constant assessment eroded…

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Key topicsHome Education and the Myth of ‘One-Size-Fits-All’ LearningShe gently unpacks common fears about homeschooling, from socialization to exam pressure, and offers language for parents who sense their child is struggling but don’t yet have a name for it. From Burnout to Breakthrough: Reclaiming Your Life After a High-Pressure CareerThis isn’t a story of reinvention-it’s one of return. To alignment. To health. And to a life that fits. Advocating for Your Child (and Yourself) in Rigid InstitutionsFor anyone feeling like the system is too big to question, Victoria shows how small acts of resistance can lead to big relief. And how to hold your ground, without losing yourself in the fight. View all topics →

About Victoria Lenormand

Victoria Lenormand, podcast guest

Ex Police Detective, Author and Holistic Health Expert Reimagining Education, Health & Justice Through a Family Lens

28 years Police service & investigation2024 author The Magic of Not Fitting InReiki Master Holistic coaching credential3 specialist areas Wellness coaching, trauma-informed care and energy work

Victoria Lenormand is a former police detective turned holistic coach, Reiki master, and passionate advocate for alternative education and social justice. With a 28-year career in public service behind her, Victoria’s lens is both compassionate and sharp: she’s witnessed firsthand how institutions can sometimes fail those they claim to serve. Her journey took a transformative turn when her youngest son’s autism diagnosis revealed the flaws in rigid educational and medical systems. Choosing to home educate, she and her family embraced a life of flexibility, healing, and empowerment—living in a motorhome before settling in Scotland and exploring a more intuitive way of living. Her family’s transformation, sparked by a combination of diet, environment, and deep listening, revealed the healing power of choice and the cost of ignoring it.

Today, through Gemini Directions, Victoria now works with families and individuals who feel stuck inside systems not made for them. Her work draws on training in wellness coaching, trauma-informed care, and energy work—but more than anything, it’s shaped by real-world experience: managing crisis with calm, asking better questions, making space when the default is to push through. Victoria speaks to parents at breaking point, professionals navigating burnout, and educators or policymakers open to doing things differently.

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Ex-detective turned homeschoolerVictoria Lenormanddescribes leaving a policing career as it shifted from service to force and recognizing the same pattern in her son’s early schooling. In this conversation, she explains how grading, labels, and constant assessment eroded confidence, and how home education replaced pressure with agency, learning by doing, and community built through shared interests rather than age-based classrooms.

🗓️ Recorded December 8, 2025. 📍 Tarragona, Spain

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