Well, That F*cked Me Up! Surviving Life Changing Events.

S5 EP32: Victoria's Story - Fighting Against A Broken System

Victoria Lenormand · August 22, 2025

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S5 EP32: Victoria's Story - Fighting Against A Broken System — Victoria Lenormand

Podcast: Well, That F*cked Me Up! Surviving Life Changing Events.

August 22, 2025 · 46 min

Send us a text Victoria Lenormand has a personal story that fits the heart of our show. She spent nearly 30 years as a police detective and public servant—work that left her carrying years of unprocessed trauma. Things really hit a breaking point when the very systems she’d…

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Key topicsHome Education and the Myth of ‘One-Size-Fits-All’ LearningShe gently unpacks common fears about homeschooling, from socialization to exam pressure, and offers language for parents who sense their child is struggling but don’t yet have a name for it. From Burnout to Breakthrough: Reclaiming Your Life After a High-Pressure CareerThis isn’t a story of reinvention-it’s one of return. To alignment. To health. And to a life that fits. Advocating for Your Child (and Yourself) in Rigid InstitutionsFor anyone feeling like the system is too big to question, Victoria shows how small acts of resistance can lead to big relief. And how to hold your ground, without losing yourself in the fight. View all topics →

About Victoria Lenormand

Victoria Lenormand, podcast guest

Ex Police Detective, Author and Holistic Health Expert Reimagining Education, Health & Justice Through a Family Lens

28 years Police service & investigation2024 author The Magic of Not Fitting InReiki Master Holistic coaching credential3 specialist areas Wellness coaching, trauma-informed care and energy work

Victoria Lenormand is a former police detective turned holistic coach, Reiki master, and passionate advocate for alternative education and social justice. With a 28-year career in public service behind her, Victoria’s lens is both compassionate and sharp: she’s witnessed firsthand how institutions can sometimes fail those they claim to serve. Her journey took a transformative turn when her youngest son’s autism diagnosis revealed the flaws in rigid educational and medical systems. Choosing to home educate, she and her family embraced a life of flexibility, healing, and empowerment—living in a motorhome before settling in Scotland and exploring a more intuitive way of living. Her family’s transformation, sparked by a combination of diet, environment, and deep listening, revealed the healing power of choice and the cost of ignoring it.

Today, through Gemini Directions, Victoria now works with families and individuals who feel stuck inside systems not made for them. Her work draws on training in wellness coaching, trauma-informed care, and energy work—but more than anything, it’s shaped by real-world experience: managing crisis with calm, asking better questions, making space when the default is to push through. Victoria speaks to parents at breaking point, professionals navigating burnout, and educators or policymakers open to doing things differently.

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Victoria Lenormandhas a personal story that fits the heart of our show. She spent nearly 30 years as a police detective and public servant—work that left her carrying years of unprocessed trauma. Things really hit a breaking point when the very systems she’d worked to uphold began failing her own family, especially as she tried to support her neurodivergent child.

That was the moment everything shifted. She walked away from the career that had shaped her identity and started a painful but powerful journey of healing, unlearning, and rebuilding. What followed was deep inner work, nervous system repair, and a total realignment of her life’s mission. Today, she helps families like hers navigate education, health, and parenting outside the traditional mold—because she’s lived the fallout when those systems don’t work.

Her story is raw, emotional, and ultimately hopeful. A story about burnout, identity loss, and what it takes to rise again with a new sense of purpose.

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