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Supporting Men Through Divorce with Kerry Farrell I Coach Clem podcast

Kerry Farrell · 14 April 2026

Life Coach · Executive Coach · Leadershipin
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Key topicsWhy some men leave a relationship and still feel grief and disorientation they never expectedThere is a common belief that the person who initiates the divorce must feel certain, relieved, or ready to move on. Kerry challenges that by showing how men can choose to leave and still experience intense grief, guilt, and emotional disorientation because the future they imagined has still fallen away. This creates a powerful conversation about why divorce and relationship breakdown hurt on both sides, and why even the man who makes the decision can feel completely undone by what comes next. Why saving the relationship sometimes starts with teaching men how to show up emotionallyA lot of relationships do not break down because love has disappeared, but because emotional disconnection has gone unspoken for too long. This conversation explores what happens when a man is seen as present in practical ways but absent emotionally, and why that gap can quietly become the real fault line in a relationship. Kerry can unpack the patterns many men were never taught to recognise in themselves, and what can shift when emotional availability stops being treated as weakness and starts being understood as a skill. Why so many men hit midlife feeling lost even when nothing looks wrong from the outsideA lot of men reach their forties or fifties having done what was expected of them, built the career, supported the family, kept going, only to realise they no longer know who they are outside the roles they have been performing. This conversation explores the quieter identity crisis that can come with redundancy, retirement, an empty nest, or simply the feeling that life has drifted away from the person they once were. Kerry can speak to why this loss of self is so often missed in men, and what it takes to rebuild a sense of purpose, confidence, and direction without pretending to become someone else. View all topics →

About Kerry Farrell

Kerry Farrell, podcast guest

Divorce and Identity Coach for Men Navigating Life Transition

47,000+ Followers across her professional LinkedIn community20+ years Business development, account management and workplace experience12 weeks Intensive Reset & Rebuild coaching programmeTeam Rebuild Community programme

Kerry Farrell knows what it means to have life split into a before and an after. After two divorces of her own, she came to understand that even when a relationship ends by choice, the grief is still real. What falls away is not only the partnership, but the future you had pictured, the routines that held everyday life together, and the sense of who you are when everything familiar has shifted. That lived experience now sits at the heart of her work with men navigating divorce, breakup, and wider life transitions that can leave them questioning who they are.

Before building her coaching practice, Kerry spent two decades in the corporate world, an experience that left her with a clear understanding of pressure, responsibility, and what it costs to keep functioning when life is unraveling behind the scenes. She changed careers in her fifties and built a practice grounded in something simple but often missing: calm, structured, non-judgmental support for men who have hit crisis point and need someone in their corner. Her work spans divorce, identity coaching, and the difficult periods of midlife change that can follow redundancy, retirement, an empty nest, or the loss of the role a man once understood himself through.

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