
Founder of Men of Means, guiding financial advisors from performance to purpose.
From Bomb Shelters to Boardrooms: How Did Surviving War Shape Your Approach to Wealth and Purpose?
Playboy Mansion Revelations: What Did Hollywood's Elite Teach You About Authentic Connection?
You were once caught in a Ponzi scheme—what did that season teach you about self-trust, greed, and the cost of ignoring your intuition?
You coach men with power, status, and influence—what do they confess behind closed doors that would shock the public?
What did managing $100M teach you about why most wealthy people are emotionally bankrupt?
What’s the dark truth you learned about masculinity while partying with celebrities at the Playboy Mansion?
What’s one thing most spiritual people get completely wrong about God—and how is it holding them back?
What did shaking hands with world leaders teach you about the difference between public power and private pain?
As an immigrant who’s made millions and lost himself in the process, what’s your message to anyone chasing the dream but feeling empty at the top?
You lead one of the most unapologetic men’s movements in the world—what’s the biggest misconception about “healthy masculinity” you’re here to destroy?
You’ve held space for powerful men to cry, confess, and crack open—what’s one moment that changed you forever as a coach?
Latest video

Why Every CEO Should Cry (A Lot)
Key topics
Your Nervous System Is Running the Whole Show
If you can’t hold sensation, you can’t hold success. Solay reveals how trauma, dysregulation, and shutdown limit purpose, wealth, and intimacy - not from lack of ambition, but from a nervous system that’s not built to hold what you’re asking for. He unpacks how control, indecision, and energetic collapse silently sabotage growth. Whether you want deeper love, greater impact, or cleaner masculine power - your nervous system is either the container or the cage.
The Hidden Hell of High-Achieving Men
Most men who “have it all” are quietly dying inside. Solay speaks directly to the providers, entrepreneurs, and executives who look powerful on paper but feel disconnected, numb, and spiritually bankrupt. He reveals what most men won’t say out loud: that success without self-ownership is just performance. From managing $100M to walking away from it all, Solay exposes the silent war behind the wins and shows men how to stop chasing and start feeling. This conversation cuts deep into burnout, masculinity, emotional suppression, and the cost of pretending.
Sex, Silence, and the Shame Men Carry
Most men have no idea how much unresolved sexual shame still controls their lives. Solay breaks open the quiet, corrosive weight men carry around desire, performance, and masculine identity. He names what others avoid: porn, people-pleasing, and overachievement are often just bandages for early rejection and internalized guilt. This conversation explores the direct connection between sexual energy, confidence, and leadership - and why healing shame may be the most powerful business decision a man can make.
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Latest video

Why Every CEO Should Cry (A Lot)
Key topics
Your Nervous System Is Running the Whole Show
If you can’t hold sensation, you can’t hold success. Solay reveals how trauma, dysregulation, and shutdown limit purpose, wealth, and intimacy - not from lack of ambition, but from a nervous system that’s not built to hold what you’re asking for. He unpacks how control, indecision, and energetic collapse silently sabotage growth. Whether you want deeper love, greater impact, or cleaner masculine power - your nervous system is either the container or the cage.
The Hidden Hell of High-Achieving Men
Most men who “have it all” are quietly dying inside. Solay speaks directly to the providers, entrepreneurs, and executives who look powerful on paper but feel disconnected, numb, and spiritually bankrupt. He reveals what most men won’t say out loud: that success without self-ownership is just performance. From managing $100M to walking away from it all, Solay exposes the silent war behind the wins and shows men how to stop chasing and start feeling. This conversation cuts deep into burnout, masculinity, emotional suppression, and the cost of pretending.
Sex, Silence, and the Shame Men Carry
Most men have no idea how much unresolved sexual shame still controls their lives. Solay breaks open the quiet, corrosive weight men carry around desire, performance, and masculine identity. He names what others avoid: porn, people-pleasing, and overachievement are often just bandages for early rejection and internalized guilt. This conversation explores the direct connection between sexual energy, confidence, and leadership - and why healing shame may be the most powerful business decision a man can make.
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