Founder of Men of Means, guiding financial advisors from performance to purpose.
Solay Rad spent over a decade climbing the financial industry's highest rungs—advising ultra-high-net-worth clients, managing $100M in assets, and earning seven figures as a Beverly Hills advisor. But behind the trackable wins were quieter truths: chronic pressure, emotional shutdown, and a growing sense that no spreadsheet could account for what he was missing. Eventually, he stepped away—not because he failed, but because he couldn’t keep succeeding like that.
Now, through his work with Men of Means, Solay supports high-performing men—especially those in finance—who find themselves privately asking, “Is this it?” On podcasts, he brings the conversations most advisors have never had but deeply need: how emotional repression shows up in leadership, how shame drives overachievement, and why the nervous system—not the calendar—is often the real bottleneck to growth.
His tools aren’t based on hacks or hustle—they come from lived experience: a redefinition of prayer as a form of non-religious intention-setting, a framework for sustainable internal alignment, and practical ways to feel more while doing less.
As a podcast guest, Solay offers a rare inside-out perspective for advisors who’ve built the dream—but are finally ready to feel it.
If you can’t hold sensation, you can’t hold success. Solay reveals how trauma, dysregulation, and shutdown limit purpose, wealth, and intimacy - not from lack of ambition, but from a nervous system…
Most men have no idea how much unresolved sexual shame still controls their lives. Solay breaks open the quiet, corrosive weight men carry around desire, performance, and masculine identity. He names…
Forget religion. This is prayer as alignment - not obedience. Solay reclaims prayer as a technology for spiritual authority: a direct connection to the field of infinite possibility, not a plea to a…
Most men who “have it all” are quietly dying inside. Solay speaks directly to the providers, entrepreneurs, and executives who look powerful on paper but feel disconnected, numb, and spiritually…
1+ podcast & stage appearances. Remote or in studio, broadcast-grade audio.