You must be present to win

Richard admits you might be able to learn more about faith by attending school, joining a study group, or reading on your own. Alternatively, you can attend church by viewing services online. However, the community benefit of churches requires presence. The environment reduces inhibitions and fosters sharing and connection, difficult or impossible to find elsewhere. “Strangers” meeting for the first time might disclose and discuss a vexing, daddy/daughter issue. One can compare it to the erosion of company culture and connection brought about by the emergence of remote work.  

About Richard Riccardi

Richard Riccardi, podcast guest

Author of The Wandering Worshipper on Belonging, Presence, and Community in Faith

33 Houses of worship visited in one year25 years Co-owned & operated Food Source, LP15+ Early-stage CPG companies & funds backedAuthor The Wandering Worshipper

For years, church occupied an uncertain middle ground in Richard G. Riccardi’s life. Being raised Catholic, he believed attendance mattered, but his experience with it was unfulfilling. A generous assessment of his attendance was irregular and uninspired.

Eventually, instead of asking what he should or was obligated to do, he asked a simpler question: Is going to church worthwhile? He put the concept to the test by attending services at 33 different places of worship, crossing denominations, cultures, and faith traditions in one year.

As the journey unfolded, he discovered he knew a lot less than he thought. Time and again, the differences and preconceptions he assumed would dominate the experience receded once he was inside the house of worship and interacting with real people.

Rather than the typical negative impressions of church, he encountered smiling, welcoming people; heard uplifting, not condemning, faith messages; learned that the differences in faith traditions are not so different; and discovered faith can transcend race.

The experience transformed him, and he concluded that there is a place for everyone, and everyone needs a place. Sure, churches aren’t perfect; they are composed of people, but the imperfections are fewer than expected, and there is a constant aspiration to do better.

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