Suggested questions

1You often work with people at what you call “threshold moments.” What makes these times so powerful for transformation?

2What have you learned from sitting with men in their most vulnerable places—moments they would normally face alone?

3Many of us trade truth for approval or comfort. How can someone begin to recognize when they’re betraying themselves in this way?

4Grief is often something we try to avoid. What have your clients—and you personally—discovered when grief is met instead of resisted?

5In your couples coaching, you’ve seen relationships change when men start speaking honestly. What shifts when honesty replaces performance?

6You talk about intensity as something to hold rather than escape. How do you teach people to stay with intensity without breaking?

7Your book The Invitation Beyond invites readers to step past cultural “noise.” What does life look like beyond that noise?

8For women listening who want to better understand the men in their lives, what do you wish they knew about how men experience struggle?

9You also run programs for young adults. Why do you think so many feel lost, and what helps them find a path that feels real?

10If someone listening feels stuck in transition right now—uncertain, lonely, or afraid—what is the very first step you’d encourage them to take?