Interview questions Joan is ready to dig into. Copy them, tweak them, or bring your own.
1What inspired you to write Do You Hate the One You Love? and how has your personal and professional journey shaped the book?
2How do unresolved childhood traumas and family dynamics influence the way we choose and interact with our partners?
3You’ve worked with couples for over 47 years—what are the most common mistakes people make in relationships, and how can they avoid them?
4Can you explain the concept of repetition compulsion and why so many people unknowingly repeat toxic patterns in their relationships?
5What advice would you give to seniors who want to rediscover intimacy and connection in their relationships?
6How can couples navigate challenges such as communication breakdowns or loss of intimacy and reclaim the sacred space in their relationship?
7What do you think is the biggest myth about love and relationships, and how does it affect people’s expectations?
8You’ve spoken about the importance of purpose and passion in your own life—how do these concepts play a role in building meaningful relationships?
9How can people turn grief or loss into a source of resilience and personal transformation in their lives and relationships?
10What is Encounter-Centered Couples Therapy, and how does it differ from traditional approaches to relationship counseling?