Why 1 in 4 Adults Step Away from Their Parents

One in four adults is estranged from a parent, yet most families treat it as an inexplicable rupture. Catherine argues it isn’t random at all-it’s the culmination of unresolved conflicts, unspoken expectations, and missed opportunities for repair. What many parents overlook is that rebuilding connection starts with them, not their children: by examining old patterns, owning missteps, and creating space for trust to regrow. With four decades as a psychotherapist and a mother who has walked this terrain herself, Catherine brings rare honesty and practical wisdom to a subject most people only whisper about, showing parents that while estrangement is common, reconciliation is always possible.

About Catherine Hickem

Catherine Hickem, podcast guest

Author, Psychotherapist & Founder of Parenting Adult Children Today

40+ years Licensed psychotherapy experienceThousands Parents guided2024 Founded Parenting Adult Children Today20 years Led The Dash Group

For over 40 years, Catherine Hickem has helped families and leaders navigate emotional complexity with clarity and purpose. A licensed clinical social worker, seasoned psychotherapist, and executive coach, Catherine has worked with thousands of parents and professionals alike—guiding them through seasons of conflict, change, and growth. Her career has spanned both private practice and corporate leadership, including two decades at the helm of The Dash Group, a consultancy focused on developing impactful leaders, healthy cultures, profitable outcomes.

Today, Catherine is leading a national conversation around one of the most overlooked family dynamics: the relationship between parents and their adult children. Despite how common this phase of life is, few resources exist to help parents navigate the transition from authority figure to trusted ally. Meanwhile, 26% of adults aged 18–40 are estranged from at least one parent, a data point that underscores the urgency of Catherine’s work.

Through her platform, Parenting Adult Children Today, she provides resources that are clear-eyed and compassionate, rooted in both clinical experience and personal story. Catherine speaks with empathy and credibility, as a professional who has seen these wounds play out in therapy rooms, and as a mother who has walked the path of reconnection and herself.

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