Suggested questions

1Why do so many parents struggle to evolve their role once their children become adults?

2What does it mean to "grieve your expectations," and why is that so important in adult relationships?

3Can you walk us through the common mistakes parents make with their grown children?

4You’ve spoken about being the “keeper of hope” as a therapist. What does that look like in a family context?

5How did your own family history—both as a daughter and a mother—influence your philosophy on parenting adult children?

6In your experience, what are the real roots of estrangement between parents and adult children?

7How can parents navigate conflicting values—especially around faith, politics, or lifestyle—with their kids?

8You often speak about "reframing"—can you share a practical example of what that looks like for a parent?

9What advice would you give to a parent who wants to reconnect, but doesn't know how to start?

10How can parents balance love and boundaries when they’re watching a child make choices they fear will lead to harm?